It’s not easy to identify a gambling problem if you are the partner or family member of someone who may be gambling. Unlike alcohol or other drug abuse a gambling problem can often be hidden, even though you may feel that something is wrong.
Here are some warning signs that there may be a problem with gambling.
Financial Signs
- There is money missing from an account or wallet/purse
- Household items and other valuables disappear
- Borrows money, particularly more than one loan
- Regularly lacks money for no apparent reason
- Is secretive about money and financial records
Behavioural & Emotional Signs
- Preoccupied with or spends a lot of time on gambling and gambling related activity
- Secretive about absences
- Often late for commitments or there is time unaccounted for
- Changes in personality, sleeping, eating and sexual relationship patterns
- Changed parenting behaviour – children are left alone or poorly cared for
- Preoccupied by unexplained worry
- A drop in attendance at family or social events
- Becomes withdrawn from others
- Complaints of feeling hopeless, depressed, suicidal and/or angry
- Gets bored easily, defensive, reactive, on edge and/or tense
- Deceptive and often makes excuses
- Reports wins but not losses
- Has unrealistic beliefs about luck and winning
If you recognise any of these warning signs in someone you know call the Gambling Helpline on 1800 060 757 or find a Gambling Help Service
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